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10 things every birthmother wants adoptive parents to know

Author and birthmother Patricia Dischler writes from the heart regarding her experience of placing a child for adoption in 1985…She offers a beautiful and heartfelt perspective of 10 things that birth parents want adoptive families to know….. please click below to this beautifully written piece…

http://www.cradle.org/forum/index.php?showtopic=883

Pregnant?Is your heart open to planning an adoption for your baby? Do you have questions how to start the process??

Link to Kinship Center’s Frequently Asked Questions about placing your baby for adoption… Kinship Center offers free confidential adoption planning services and opportunity to plan an open adoption and choose the adoptive parents for your baby and enter into an open adoption..It’s your choice.

http://www.pregnantwhatdoido.com/where-do-i-start/faqs/

Pregnant? Considering an open adoption?Kinship Center can help you find an adoptive family for your baby…

Are you looking for a family to adopt your baby who would honor an open adoption? Families approved by Kinship Center ,a fully licensed California Adoption Agency believe in open adoption and want to get to know the birth mother/birth father and birth family of the child and form a real relationship that is more than just an exchange of pictures and emails…they want to continue to build a real relationship that involves face to face contact through the years… click below to view waiting adoptive parent profiles.

www.pregnantwhatdoido.com/parent-profiles/

Adoptee finds joy and connections in spite of grief….

I came across this heartwarming story of an adult adoptee who attempted to search for her birth family but the opportunity was lost out of fear…sadly her birth mother died without connecting with the daughter she placed for adoption 50 years ago…but in spite of the grief and what appeared to be a lost opportunity to connect another door was opened and the adoptee found a loving and open birth family who embraced her and filled in the missing pieces and connections…this story made me reflect on how brave birth mothers are who choose to be active participants in their children’s adoptions and although emotional and challenging for both adoptive families and birth families to keep the adoption open and to build ongoing relationships the child will be the beneficiary of all the adults hard work  and wisdom…

click to link to the story

 http://www.buffalonews.com/city/communities/tonawanda/article685511.ece

Gift giving in an open adoption?

Last Christmas I wrote some suggestions about gift giving for Birth Parents involved in an open adoption… hope you find them helpful

click to link to the article…Happy Holidays

http://www.pregnantwhatdoido.com/birth-parents-and-gift-giving-keeping-it-simple-and-from-the-heart/

Pregnant considering adoption? Looking to choose a family to adopt your baby?

Kinship Center is dedicated to helping woman explore adoption and choose the family for their baby and enter into an open adoption..click below to view  adoptive parent profiles..choose a family with confidence knowing that Kinship Center families are pre approved, and are required to take adoption classes…

www.pregnantwhatdoido.com/parent-profiles/

Celebrating Birth Parents for the Holidays…


Placing a child voluntarily for adoption is a life altering choice with lifetime ramifications… the issues of grief and loss are profound for birth parents as well as adopted children… in addition adoptive parents also bring grief and loss issues to the adoption table… connecting with other families whether birth or adoptive families is a good thing to do… it also allows the great joys that are realized in adoption to be celebrated, discussed and acknowledged… Kinship Center sponsors several venues for both birth and adoptive families to share their viewpoints and to celebrate as well as to sometimes shoulder each others grief and loss related to the adoption… I am particularly proud of our Holiday Celebration that we sponsor each year just for “Birth Parents” to share their stories with each other… This year our celebration will take place on December 14th at 6:00pm at Kinship Center located in Tustin California… I’ve posted the invitation in hopes that we reach Birth Parents who are in the area and may want to attend… Most of the Birth Parents who attend are involved in a child centered, relationship built open adoption… where they are having regular and loving contact… offering the child and themselves all the possibilities that this type of open and loving relationship can hold… It still does not mean that the holidays aren’t hard for Birth Parents even with openness… Part of the Celebration is dedicated to holding a support group where each birth parent is given time to tell her story and provide updates on their current relationship with the adoptive family… There’s usually an abundance of food, support ,love and laughter and tears… if you are a birth parent in the area and would like to attend please contact us to RSVP.

National Adoption Awareness Month:

Maybe you didn’t know but November is National Adoption Awareness Month…. The role of being a birth parent can be hard, but it’s important to educate others as to who Birth parents are, as well as show the love they have for their children and the families they have helped to create through love ,sacrifice and commitment of placing a child for adoption…Birth parents have a lot to say so stand “tall and proud” and consider doing one thing to let others know what its like to be a birth parent the good as well as the challenges that are part of the adoption decision.. click the link below to see a list of 10 things you could consider doing during National Adoption Awareness Month…

http://www.pregnantwhatdoido.com/10-things-a-birth-parent-can-do-to-celebrate-national-adoption-awareness-month/

Birth mother writes from the heart and offers a perspective on her open adoption

One young woman bravely blogs about her choice in 2005 to place her daughter in an open adoption..the choice was difficult and she writes from the heart stating that open adoption isn’t always easy but it was the right decision for her…Click the link below to read this real adoption story…

https://www.adoptioncouncil.org/publications/adoption-advocate-no-41.html

Unplanned Pregnancy? Considering adoption? Real Stories…

Pregnant considering adoption and wondering what the adoption process would be like?? Read real adoption stories from birth parents who have been through the adoption process…

http://www.pregnantwhatdoido.com/real-stories/